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msßñkag fkd;sfnk w;r /jq, jefjk nj" Wrysia mdáka hq;= frosms<s yd NdKav o" fi,a,ï WmlrK
m<,aj msysàu" lgyv r`M ùu jeks ,CIK fudjqkg f,i fndakslalka" Whk msysk fi,a,ï NdKav hkdosh
úfYaI fõ' fufia Wm;;a iu`.u ysñjk YdÍßl f;dard .ks;s' tu flkd msßñ jQ úfgl ks,a meyefhka
fjkialï uq,afldg msßñ yd .eyekq whg foúoshlg hq;= frosms<s yd NdKav o" fi,a,ï WmlrK f,i kd
ie,lSug hdfuka iudc wiudk;dj we;s ù ;sfí' kd úêfha fi,a,ï jdyk" ;=jlal=" fnda," l%slÜ ms;s
tfiau iudch úiska yeu úfglu msßñ jeks oE wdosh o f;dard .ks;s' fuu fi,a,ï NdKav
yd .eyekq whj fjka fjkaj i,ld l%shd lsÍfuka j¾. .ek lsis`ÿ oekqu wjfndaOhla fuu .eyekq
wiudk;dj ;j;a ;yjqre lr we;' iudcfha isß;a" fyda msßñ <orejdg fkdmj;shs' fuu fkdorejkag
úß;a" iïm%odhka" wd.ñl ms<sfj;a fukau .;s mej;=ï" ny fkdf;afrk jhfiaoSu .eyekq msßñ jYfhka
yeisÍï rgd yd ld¾hNdrhka .eyekq msßñ f,i fjka fjka fjkaj fi,a,ï NdKav ,nd oSfuka wiudk;ajh
fldg ;sfí' iudcfha meje;aug .eyekq yd msßñ fnoSu ms<sn`o ye`.Su l=vd wjêfha isgu Tjqkaf.a is;a ;=<
wjYH fohla jqj;a th mdol lrf.k Tjqfkdjqkag cks; lrkq fmfka' fujeks wiudk;d .;s ,CIK
fjkiaj ie,lSug hdfuka fndfyda wiudk;d wjia:d we;sj we;soeä jk Tjqfkdjqka iudc.; ùfïos o
mek ke`.S ;sfí' úfYaIfhkau iudc idOdrK;ajh Bg wkqrEmj yev .efihs' ta wkqj iudchl fmdÿ
.s,syS hdu;a iudc ixj¾Ok iyNd.s;ajhg iu wjia:d iycSjkh fukau ixj¾Ok l%shdj,shg fuhska úúO
fkd,eîu;a fï ksid isÿù ;sfí' ndOd f.k fohs'
ud.%Ü óâ ^Margaret Mead& kï iudc udkj
wd¾' iafgda,¾ ^R. stoller& úiska ,shk ,o
,sx.sl;ajh yd ia;%S mqreI Ndjh (Sex and Gender) úoHd{jßh úiska ,shk ,o mqreIhd iy ia;%sh
kï .%ka:fha mjikafka ia;S% mqreI Ndjh yqfola ufkda ^Male and Female& kï .%ka:fha oS fmkajd fokafka
úoHd;aul yd ixialD;sluh w¾: oelaùula muKla ia;%S mqreI iudc Ndjh cSj úoHd;aul idOlhla u;
njhs' ,sx. fNaoh oelaùug jvd;a iqÿiq fhÿu ia;%S ,efnk nj;a tksidu iudcfha isÿlrk jev lghq;=
^female& yd mqreI ^male& jkafka kï ia;%S mqreI iudc msßñ yd .eyekq jYfhka fnod fjka l< fkdyels
Ndjh wjOdrKh lsÍug iqÿiq yd ksjeros fhÿu nj;a h' fndfyda iudcj, ldka;djkag ieye,a¨ jev
jkafka ia;%S;ajh ^feminine& iy mqreI;ajh ^masculine& fldgia ysñù ;sîu y`ÿkd.; yelsh' tysoS nr jev
hkak nj fmkajd fohs' tfiau fuu fhÿu ;=<ska cSj msßñkag ysñù ;sfí' fuh Wm;;a iu`.u isÿlr
úoHd;aul fjki ksrEmKh lrk nj yd iajdëk ;sfnk fnoSula fkdfõ' ia;%sh yd mqreIhd hk fnoSu
woyia bosßm;a lrk njo tysoS wjOdrKh lrhs' fuu mdol lrf.k iudcfha jev fldgia fnod fjka lsÍu
ú.%yh mdol lrf.k ia;%Sh yd mqreIhd foi n,kafka w¾: rys; tlla neõ óâ úiska fmkajd oS ;sfí'
kï tu`.ska fnoSula we;s fkdlrhs' tysoS yqfolau cSj wEka ´laf,a ^Ann Orkley& iudc udkj
úoHd;aulj Wm; ,o wfhl= ^if;l=& f,i idudkH úoHd{jßh mjid we;af;a ldka;dj jQ muKska
ie,ls,a,g .kS' .!yKshl fyda ujlf.a N=ñldj wehg Wm;skau
iafgda,¾ mjik mßos ia;%S mqreI nj foi mejrek j.lSï fkdjk njhs' msßñhd msßñfhl=
n,kafka kï fï fomsßi w;r we;s wiudk;dj ùu ksidu wd¾Ól iïm;a Wmhkakd ùuo w;HjYH
neyer l< yelsh' tfy;a th fld;rï h:d¾:hla fkdjk njo weh fmkajd fohs' fujeks úIu;djka
lr .; yelso hkak .eg¨ iy.; jkafka fomsßiu f.dvke`.S we;af;a ta ta iudcj, mj;sk ixialD;Ska
fï wiudk;dj ms<s.ekSug fm<eöu ksidh' iudcfha u`.sks' tneúka iudcfha jev fldgia .eyekq yd
;sfnk ixialD;sl ms<s.ekSï Bg m%Odk n,mEu lr msßñ jYfhka fnoSu idOdrKSlrKh lsÍu wiSre
we;' tysoS .eyeksh yd msßñhd iïnkaOfhka ;sfnk neõ y`ÿkd .; yelsh'
ms<s.ekSï ;=<ska wiudk;dj we;s lr ;sfí' ixj¾ê; .eyekq yd msßñ fNaoh uq,a fldg fkdfhl=;a
rgj, fuh ;rula wvq jqj;a fkdoshqKq fyda oshqKq iudcuh wdl,am /ila mj;shs' fïjd ljrla ksid
fjñka mj;sk iudcj, m%n,j fuh olakg ,efí' we;sjQfha oehs ksYaÑ; fkdjqK;a fuhska iudc
fuysoS wm%sldkq" ueo fmros." ol=Kq wdishdkq iudc lemS wiudk;d /ila f.dvk`.d ;sfí' furg mjq,lg
fmfkhs' ,xld iudcfha újdyl ldka;djlg m<uqj odj ÿjl bmeÿK úgl zzfyd`oska /l n,d .kak
orefjl= ìysùug hdfïoS weh yd jeä msßila m%d¾:kd fjhs'' mßiaiï lr.kak fjhs'' fyd`o ishque,s kula
lrkqfha msßñ orefjl=h' ta i`oyd ndrydr ùï fukau ;shkak fjhs''ZZ hkdos jYfhka jHjydrfha mj;shs'
msßñ orejkaf.a mska;=r ks;r ne,Su msßñ orejka iqr;,a tfy;a msßñ orefjl= bmeÿK úfgl zzmjq,g yhshla''
lsÍu wdosh isÿlrk wkaou oelsh yelsh' fuysoS wod, mrïmrdj f.kshkag yß mq`Mjka'' f,dafla jfÜ .syska
ldka;dj úiskau msßñ oerefjl= me;Sfuka fmfkkqfha wdj;a nh fjkag fohla kE''ZZ hkdos jYfhka jHjydr
weh úiskau .eyekq wh fojeks ;efkys ,d ie,lSuh' fjhs' fuu woyia j,ska .eyekq whg jvd msßñka we`.
hSug ,la lr ;sfí' msßñkag idfmaCIj .eyekq wh
we;a; jYfhkau fuf,djg ìysjk flkd
orefjl= f,i ms<s.ekSu isÿúh hq;=h' kuq;a fuysoS /ln,d .ekSfï j.lSï iy.; nj fmkajhs' fuu
tu flkd .eyekq o ke;skï msßñ o hkak ne,Sfuka woyia j,ska .eyekq yd msßñ hk wh fjkia fldg
;yjqre lrkqfha .eyekq msßñ wiukd;dj ms<s.kakd ie,lSu biau;= lr ;sfí'
njls' tmuKla fkdj mqoa., m%;spdr oelaùu o Bg tmuKla fkdj újdyl wjia:djl ukd,hd
wkqrEmj isÿfjhs' orejd .eyekq jQ úfgl frdai úiska ukd,shf.a md¾Yjfhka oejeoaola wfmaCId lsÍu
